think again..

had a long talk with fwc just now, I think she is probably studying right now and I just have to blog about it.
Maybe not about the talk today, the talks we had last week..
hahahaha.. i am having this peer pressure thingy..


I really respected you after knowing for about a month
I used think you are independent, mature and all sorts of thing
I used to pity you when you complained about your parents scolded you
even worst, I believed you were correct and your parents were wrong
I even asked around if you were okay
BUT
come to think of it
have you ever wonder
Why you parents scold you or argue with you??
try thinking, think harder..
do you think parents will scold their kids for no reason?
scold you useless, stupid and all??
I don't think so
no parents would actually do that
they definitely have their reasons
definitely you did something wrong
if not all these words won't come out from their mouth
you think they are happy scolding you?
hey, pls, scolding your own children stupid or useless..
you think they enjoy saying that? they will be laughing?
THINK AGAIN...
try putting yourself in their shoes
how will you feel if your own child is spending money like nobody's business,
go yum cha every night till midnight,
clubbing,
then skip class the next day,
and treat home just a place to sleep
How will you deal with these kind of child?
just leave them?
In my opinion,
they scold you or argue with you
simply because THEY CARE!
I am serious..
If not why do they even waste time and energy yet adding more wrinkles to scold you?
THINK AGAIN..

IF they don't care
then you will complain
"i don't get enough from LOVE from my parents"
THINK AGAIN
how the hell they gonna give you LOVE when you are always out??
by the time you are back, they probably sleeping
by the time you wake, they already at work
HOW TO GIVE LOVE WHEN THERE IS NO COMMUNICATION??
oh gosh..seriously
you might be mature
but have you ever thought of all these??
I doubt so
sounds familiar?
yea, it's you I am talking about

Thanks for reading..
but like what fwc said
If you are reading these line now
you made the choice to read it
I did not force you

smiles =)